The Foundry · an online group for men · next teaching night first Wednesday of the month

Work on the practical side of being a man - with eleven other men, online

Your body, your energy, how you handle pressure, how you are with women and with the people closest to you. One subject a month, taught properly and practised together - then a second night to say how it actually went.

  • First Wednesday
  • 19:30 UK
  • On Zoom
Kieran Dowling teaching at a whiteboard, pointing to a hand-drawn graphKieran teaching
From one of Kieran's teaching videos. The Foundry meets online, on Zoom.
Free

Come to your first teaching night free

The first Wednesday of the month, 19:30 UK, on Zoom. I will email you the link before the night.

Already sure? £65 a month. Optional add-on: the Anvil, a monthly one-to-one with me, for £55 more (£120 in total). Three months minimum, then month to month.

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Full refund if I decide it is not a fit · 14 days to cancel before your first session
Secure card payment through Stripe; the page shows the price before you pay. After you pay, you fill in Taking Your Measure, an in-depth questionnaire, and I read it before your first night. Questions first? Email me - I answer them myself.

Before you join

Is it for you?

This works if

  • You would rather practise something than read about it
  • You can give two Wednesday evenings a month, and some time in between
  • You are willing to be on camera and to speak in a room of men, even if it takes you a while
  • You want a small group where you are known

This is not the place if

  • You are looking for therapy or clinical treatment
  • You want to keep watching rather than take part - watching is fine on your free night, but members join in.
  • You need something you can dip in and out of with no commitment
  • You are in crisis right now. That needs more than a group can give. Please talk to someone today: Samaritans, 116 123, free, any time, or your GP.
What it is

Grow your masculinity, shoulder to shoulder with other men

The Foundry is a small group of twelve men that meets on Zoom twice a month to work on the practical side of being a man: one teaching night and one sharing night, usually the first and third Wednesdays.

Where a subject allows it, we practise as well as talk - standing up, on camera. Nothing in the practice is sexual. It is the kind of thing you would do in a mixed yoga class.

A Foundry teaching night on Zoom: Kieran's slides on the left and the men on video down the right, with other members blurred for privacyA Foundry teaching night on Zoom · other members blurred for privacy
What it does for you

What you get

01

One part of being a man, explained properly, every month

One subject a month, taught properly: how it works in your body and your life, and what to do about it.

02

Something to work on between nights, and a long game

Each teaching night gives you a practice to work on until the next one. It builds over the year.

03

A room of men with experience and perspective

Twelve men. Often someone has been where you are, or sees it from another angle.

04

Somewhere to say the thing out loud

The sharing night is for saying what is going on in your life, to men who take it seriously.

05

Someone paying attention

On the sharing night the room asks how the practice went, and so do I.

Come to a teaching night free →

Name and email, no payment. Or join now at £65 a month - twelve places, 4 left.
Full refund if I decide it is not a fit · 14 days to cancel before your first session

First Wednesday · Teaching

The teaching night (we call it the Foundry)

We take one subject and go into it properly. Then, where the subject allows, we put it to work - standing up, doing the thing, with the rest of the room doing it alongside you. You leave with something to work on until the next night, and on the sharing night we find out how it went.

Over a year we cover roughly one subject a month:

  • Masculinity
  • The body
  • Erotic energy
  • Managing stress
  • Balancing life and transformation
  • How you are with women
  • Being a better lover, in and out of the bedroom
  • Being an attractive man
  • Values and principles
Teaching at the whiteboardOnline group · photo from an in-person session
Men talking together in a garden between sessionsOnline group · photo from an in-person session
Third Wednesday · Sharing

The sharing night (we call it the Garden)

It covers how the practice went, and anything else going on - work, home, or something you have never said to anyone.

The group listens, asks questions, and helps you work out what to do next.

Who is running this

Kieran Dowling

I have practised yoga and Tantra for seventeen years and taught them, along with men's groups, for more than a decade - in London, and in workshops from Copenhagen to Jamaica. I have written two books: TARA Inside Out, and Give Us under the pen name Sebastian Lopez.

I run the Foundry myself - the teaching, the reading of your questionnaire and the one-to-ones.

More about Kieran →

Kieran Dowling talking with men at a session

Kieran Dowling, running a session

From men I have worked with before the Foundry

Working with Kieran has been eye-opening. He gave me perspectives that would never have occurred to me, and they had an instant impact when I applied them in my relationship.Teo, London

“Your easygoing manner and sense of fun make a lot of the heavier material easier to take, and easier to keep returning to. I’m not sure I would have stuck with it with other teachers.”

Jack, on working with Kieran before the Foundry
What membership includes

Yours from the day you join

What it costs

Twelve places in the room

4 of 12 places leftUp to 5 of the 12 can add the Anvil one-to-one: 1 of those places left.
The Foundry
Membership
£65
A month
  • Both nights, every month
  • Taking Your Measure, read by me
  • The library, with every teaching night recorded
  • The Telegram group between nights
Join the Foundry - £65 a month
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Add the Anvil
Optional add-on · for up to 5 of the 12
+£55
A month · £120 in total

In the Foundry the whole room is heated at once. On the Anvil, a man is hand-crafted.

  • Forty-five minutes one to one with me, on Zoom, every month
  • Your own goal, and a plan built around your life - work, relationship, body, or anything the group does not cover
  • Three points of contact a month instead of two, and higher accountability

The Anvil is an add-on to Foundry membership, not a separate group. Up to 5 of the 12 men can add it. That is how many one-to-ones I can fit in a month.

Join with the Anvil - £120 a month
You can add the Anvil later if a place is free.

Minimum three months, then month to month - cancel any time after that by email.

If I read your questionnaire and decide the Foundry is not right for you, I refund you in full. You can also cancel within fourteen days of joining for a full refund, as long as you have not yet been to a session. Once you have been to a session, there is no refund.

Questions first? Write to me and I will answer them.

The process

How joining works

You can come to one teaching night free before any of this - name and email, no card. When you are ready to join: you pay first, then answer a questionnaire. I read it before your first night. If I read your questionnaire and decide the Foundry is not right for you, I refund you in full. You can also cancel within fourteen days of joining for a full refund, as long as you have not yet been to a session. Once you have been to a session, there is no refund.

  1. PayBy card, through Stripe.
  2. Taking Your Measure lands in your inboxIt arrives by email within a couple of days of joining. Fill it in properly.
  3. I read itWithin two days we both know whether it is a fit. If it is not, you are refunded in full.
  4. You are inThe Telegram group and the library are open to you from the moment you pay. The next teaching night is on the first Wednesday of the month, on Zoom; the link comes beforehand. Your first night is always a teaching night.

Dates and terms

Your first nightFree. A teaching night, no payment - register with your name and email.
How oftenTwo Wednesdays a month, usually the first and third: the teaching night and the sharing night. Nothing on the other Wednesdays.
Next teaching nightFirst Wednesday · 19:30 UK
Next sharing nightThird Wednesday · 19:30 UK
Night length50 minutes, plus 15 for anyone staying on
RecordedTeaching nights yes, for the library · the sharing night never
WhereOn Zoom · link sent before each night
Room size12 men · 4 places left
Anvil add-onUp to 5 of the 12 · 1 left
BillingFirst payment by card through Stripe on the day you join, then on the same date each month. No VAT is added; the price shown is what you pay.
CommitmentMinimum three monthly payments, then month to month
CancellingEmail me. It takes effect at the end of the month you have paid for, and you keep access until then.
Full termsroseandsword.com/terms · Privacy
Kieran Dowling
Before you decide

A note from Kieran

Rose & Sword started as a writing project. The Foundry is the practical side of it: a small group of men, meeting twice a month, working on body, mind, Eros and relationships.

Rose & Sword is the name I teach under. The sword is discipline, clarity and the ability to act - the teaching night. The rose is sensitivity and staying open - the sharing night.

I have practised yoga and Tantra for seventeen years and taught for more than a decade. I run the Foundry myself.

If you are not sure it is for you, come to a teaching night for free and see.

Kieran

More about me →  ·  Email me

Next teaching night: first Wednesday

Twelve men, two evenings a month, and a practice to work on in between.

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Full refund if I decide it is not a fit · 14 days to cancel before your first session
Questions first? Write to me and I will answer them.

Men standing together at the start of a session